Regardless of aspects like religion, income level or ethnicity- people develop different types of relationships in life. However, the bond of love that you form with your partner or spouse is very special and it has no substitute. Owing to many things like stress, work pressure related complications, monetary woes and others, sometimes you may feel the bonding with your partner has become somewhat weakened. Unless you take some effective steps, it is difficult to rekindle the passion and love for each other.
Below listed are 5 top measures that you can take to strengthen the bond with your partner/spouse:
• Taking break from chores and heading to a vacation
For many working couples, spending quality time together becomes challenging owing to professional pressure, family issues, and social obligations etc. So, you may plan for a surprise trip with your partner to reignite the passion. You may think of gifting him/her a prepaid trip to a destination where you will find serenity and time to spend time with one another. Think of mutual likings when selecting such a destination. This could be even a weekend trip. It would be a good idea to choose a serene location so that you can give attention to each other.
• Giving a surprise gift
There is nothing new about gifting your spouse something valuable on occasions like birthday or anniversary. However, you may also choose to give him/her something without any occasion as a surprise. There is no fixed thing and you may think of gifting something you know the partner is very fond of. Based on budget and preferences it could be anything from a new cooktop to a platinum ring or a new tablet. Of course, you need to get something which is cherished by your partner/spouse.
• Learning something new together
It would be a great idea to learn something new with your couple. This will give both of you a valid reason to spend more time together and this works better for working couples who struggle to find time for each other. This could be learning a new language together. You may even enroll in a dance course together. If both of you are the adventurous types, and have time to spare, opt for a course in scuba diving or bungee jumping.
• Giving a culinary surprise/sharing responsibility of the kitchen
It would be a great idea to give your spouse/partner a culinary surprise sometimes. On a weekend you may don the hat of chef at home and cook up dishes when he/she least expects it. Use the web resources to your advantage in this regard. Similarly, you may try sharing responsibilities in the kitchen in a regular and periodic way. You may cook every Saturday or Sunday.
• Re-living old and cherished memories
This works very well for couples who entered conjugal life after being smitten by cupid. Every couple has some fond memories of time spent together in pre marital life. It would be a nice idea to indulge in things that you did together before tying the knot. Based on your situation and past, it could include things like eating at specific restaurants or going to amusement parks together or more adventurous stuffs! You may choose the upcoming wedding anniversary to repeat doing things you did and enjoyed in the past.
Where it all leads to?
Of course, there are many other ways to add spark of passion to your relationship and strengthen it. It depends on your specific situation, likings and mutual preferences etc. Sometimes, it makes sense to think creatively and come up with an unusual idea to amaze your spouse.